Posted on 7th September 2010 by admin in General
Creates, Selfesteem
We all want to feel good about ourselves but many of us go about this in the ways that will never create self-esteem.
Do you believe that you will have high self-esteem when:
• You make a lot of money?
• You achieve a high position in your work?
• You have an expensive car or an expensive home?
• You are famous?
• You find the right relationship?
• You receive approval from the important people in your life?
While all of these can result in momentary good feelings, none of them create a deep and abiding sense of self-esteem.
Self-esteem actually has nothing to do with your achievements or with other people. Self-esteem results from two things regarding your inner relationship with yourself:
• How you see yourself
• How you treat yourself
Richard, a client of mine, is a very successful businessman. He is wealthy, lives is a big house, has expensive cars, a lovely wife and three child...
Posted on 6th September 2010 by admin in General
Developing, Selfesteem
Self-esteem is a state of mind. It can fill you with happiness, cheer, and confidence. It can also make you feel terrible about yourself. Self-esteem is like a battery. When the battery is charged, the individual is positive; when the battery is low, the individual is negative.
Individuals with low self-esteem often do not do well in life. They will approach most situations with little confidence though they may be fully capable of accomplishing it. Self-belief is considered the foundation of self-esteem. It provides the extra confidence that one needs to know they can do anything.
So how do you develop self-belief in yourself? Do not mistake self-belief as self-importance. They are not the same. It is more like conceit, spawn over confidence and egotism, which does not lead to personal success.
The right answer is positive self-esteem. This means that you see yourself as good and capable as anyone else, no better or worse, you are proud of who you are, and you ...
Posted on 5th September 2010 by admin in General
Esteem, Happy, Self, yourself
“Self Esteem and How to be Happy with Yourself “ by Karl Perera
Are you happy with yourself – with who you are and what you are doing? If you want high self esteem this is very important. Here’s what you need to be happy with yourself:
a) Don’t compete with others. Life is not a race. Set your own standards and try to reach them, don’t be scared to fail and accept your own limitations. Competing with others will drain you and will take away your self esteem because there will always be someone better than you. Decide on your path and stick to it.
b) Understand yourself. Know your strengths and weaknesses. Use your skills and do your best. You will find satisfaction when you are doing what you are good at and when you accept your weaknesses. Chances are you will also be more successful this way. Try to improve yourself but don’t waste effort and time on those things which are ...
Posted on 4th September 2010 by admin in General
Build, Enhances, Esteem, Self, Worth
Self Esteem is the value of your own self or your self worth. Loss of self esteem can occur any time and causes more depression in your life. Loss self esteem may mean that you lose the goal of your life and do not feel like living. The building back of your self esteem is the first step to lead a happy and satisfied life. The building of self esteem helps by giving a boost to your self confidence. Being confident will make others to give you the respect you deserve. It will also make you to respect yourself. Having a respect for yourself and you can give the deserved respect to the others who deserve it. It will help in building successful and happy relationships and help you to go for the thing that you wanted to achieve as well as happiness in life.
The presence of low self esteem may mean that its friends like depression, unhappiness, insecurity and poor confidence are also present which you cannot get rid of. The other desires which were given a low key pref...
Posted on 3rd September 2010 by admin in General
Esteem, Lesson, Plans, Self
There are various ways to do protect, raise, or reinforce your self esteem.
Try to spend time with people who like you and care about you.
Be bold to ignore people who used to put you down or treat you badly.
Always used to do things which make you feel happy and enjoy.
Always do things in which you are good
Whenever you got success appreciate yourself
Try to be your own friend first, do things which are good for you and treat yourself well
Be improving day by day
Don’t lie on others decisions, make your own decisions
Do whatever you think is right
Always be true to yourself and your values
Try to respect others
Always try to set and achieve goals
Lesson for Young Adolescents
It is necessary to become aware, how their l...
